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[truelight86]

I just read this in the "take it out side"(TIOS) and wanted to know if we actualy had to take it out side. I would like to hear something about this in the podcast, if you want an African Americans point of view I would be more than happy to give mine on anything I can. I dont know about focusing onBDSM but maybe kinks in general. How rac does play a part in some groups and the way people think about sex. In the TIOS section the descution was mainly about the "taboo" of blacks playing as bottums/subs/ slaves, I would like to ask the listeners/forum members and our lovely hosts what they think about this. Also why does it seem there are so many groups that black men as superior, and what draws women/men in interracial relationships or an interracial sexual preference to people of another ethnicity if the ethnicity is a big part of the choice. I hope this question isn't too controversial and can actualy make it to the air. If you need me to clarify any thing I wrote or want to talk to me about this in any way I'm pretty available. I just want to get some opinions and information about a "kink" that is very close to home, and That is what this forum and podcast are all about, right?

[Domdra9on]

Its the same warped mentality that the feminists use to assert that women shouldn't be submissive be cause its a form a male abuse/power.

The bottom line however,is that its about choice and consent and not about trying to comform to some outsiders expectation.

[semiramis72]

I think that the groups of people that consider black men as superior are reflecting the social construct that black men are intimidating in appearance, demeanour, and sexuality. Plus, the notion that the feeling of being “oppressed” should manifest in establishing control and ownership makes some people think that black men are best suited for a dominant role—anything less makes him “effeminate.” I could be off the mark, here—any thoughts?

I was watching an episode of The Unexplained discussing the many facets of sexual attraction—chemistry, society, morality all having a large part in it, but we still don’t know why we like what we like. I have been attracted to white males since first grade, and when I joined the military and learned about cultures different from mine I was and still am drawn in by Asian men. Why? Mom believes I have a case of gamophobia and am subconsciously setting myself up to fail by wanting men that traditionally don’t want me. Dad thinks I just want the attention. Offended would-be suitors accuse me of hating myself. None of those are entirely true. I gave up trying to figure it out and decided to just indulge. I’d like to think who I like to share a bed or a life with is not a political statement. Not to take away from those fighting for those very rights in this society—not too long ago I could go to jail for mixing it up.

I find men from all races attractive—I’m wired to like men. I would not be here without black men, so I could never hate them because they’re a part of me. And yes, I’ve had sexual experiences with black men that were, for the most part, positive. I simply prefer the incredible contrast of the look, feel, scent, and taste of features not like mine—that just does it for me.

I explain my preference like this: I love to drink Mountain Dew. Always have, always will. I’ve even added Code Red to my list. But that doesn’t mean I won’t drink Pepsi, Coke, Sprite, or Dr. Pepper.

Choice and consent. True for both soft drinks and sex partners. And it's what makes me a submissive and a feminist--but that's another topic.
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[J.W.]

The reason I posted in the take it outside topic was because I didn't know how it would be viewed.

I loved the interview with Shannon, and I would love to hear more about her.
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