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Prof. Tom
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Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2006 2:20 pm Post subject: Episode 8 - Fisting | Rape Fantasy |Glossary of BDSM terms |
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Just finished editing the show for this week, here's a little teaser...
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This week's program was a LOT more fun for the two of us.
When you listen, I think you'll hear that Dominion and I are really starting to 'gel' on the air.
The audio quality was a little shaky at times. Sorry about that. It's totally my fault. I'm buying new stuff every week, so it seems like I'm always behind on learning the studio. Hopefully it's not too bad. It will get better, give me time.
We're a week ahead at the moment, so I can tell you that the next show is also really fun to listen to. IMHO.
Thanks for listening.
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J.W.
Joined: 04 Jan 2006
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Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 7:38 am Post subject: |
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On fisting: The fister, Get a manicure and wear a glove whether you're going Vaginal or Anal. The fistee: relax.
Enemas are encouraged for Anal fisting and I would go so far as to say for Anal sex. The purpose of which is to flush out any excess fecal matter out of the anal cavity. Do your research first and use common sense.
One thing that you should do with either anal or vaginal is lots, LOTS, of foreplay and lube. I also recommend wearing a latex glove after getting a manicure. Go Slow and let the fistee dictate the rate of progress.
Don't go into the encounter with the goal to fist, You can't just plunge your hand into either hole, your partner has to be coaxed into relaxing enough to allow your hand to be engulfed by them.
A woman's vagina is designed to stretch to accomodate a baby's head, so a fist shouldn't be a problem, but don't make the mistake that any woman can take a fist on the first or even tenth attempt at it. Remember that a woman's body goes through hell before it can pass a baby, (contractions and dilations.) You'll have to put a woman's body through heaven before you can put a fist up there.
Rape fantasies; I think you covered it really well.
TRC
Trust Respect and Communication: Something that I think you missed in your show in the terms section.
Support Your Troops.
By the way; when will you draw?
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Prof. Tom
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Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 3:05 pm Post subject: |
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when will you draw? |
We're waiting for the paddle to arrive.
We plan on drawing at the end of the month.
We were hoping to do several giveaways at the end of each month.
So far, lots of people talking, not a lot of getting off of asses and sending stuff. You know how people are.
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Bitter_Man
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Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 7:50 pm Post subject: |
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This is my first official post other than introducing myself, hi
I have a question about the whole enema thing. When saying it's dangerous, do you mean an enema where the water really goes up into the colon (like a colonic I would assume)?
What about just shooting water up there but not too far? I've used one of those bulb things before and can't imagine that'd be too dangerous.
I would worry about the intrusive enemas though; the ones with the large enema bags and long hoses, the ones that send water far up into the body. (?)
(sorry for not being to specific here)
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Prof. Tom
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Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 2:39 pm Post subject: |
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Bitter_Man wrote: |
I have a question about the whole enema thing. When saying it's dangerous, do you mean an enema where the water really goes up into the colon (like a colonic I would assume)? |
There is a reason I'm soooooo cautious about enemas.; My wife has a degree in biology, her mother is a doctor, her father is a doctor, my Dad is a nurse, my mother was an EMT, two of my cousins are Doctors and two are in med school or residence.... you get the idea.
If you get information from doctors it does tend to be a little more conservative than the real world sometimes. So, you should take my paranoia with a grain of salt.
I would suggest doing a little bit of reading and forming your own opinion. Again, I say this not to be lazy, but because I tend to err on the side of caution. Ironic for a guy that eats fire.
Here's a good link to get you started:
http://www.nowtoronto.com/issues/2004-12-16/goods_health.php
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What about just shooting water up there but not too far? I've used one of those bulb things before and can't imagine that'd be too dangerous. |
I'll have to ask about those specifically. Hmmmmm - doesn't seem like that could hurt you... but, what do I know? I'll ask. If anyone ask a medical pro before me, please post.
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Bitter_Man
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Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 6:40 pm Post subject: |
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kinkysex wrote: |
Bitter_Man wrote: |
I have a question about the whole enema thing. When saying it's dangerous, do you mean an enema where the water really goes up into the colon (like a colonic I would assume)? |
There is a reason I'm soooooo cautious about enemas.; My wife has a degree in biology, her mother is a doctor, her father is a doctor, my Dad is a nurse, my mother was an EMT, two of my cousins are Doctors and two are in med school or residence.... you get the idea.
If you get information from doctors it does tend to be a little more conservative than the real world sometimes. So, you should take my paranoia with a grain of salt.
I would suggest doing a little bit of reading and forming your own opinion. Again, I say this not to be lazy, but because I tend to err on the side of caution. Ironic for a guy that eats fire.
Here's a good link to get you started:
http://www.nowtoronto.com/issues/2004-12-16/goods_health.php
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What about just shooting water up there but not too far? I've used one of those bulb things before and can't imagine that'd be too dangerous. |
I'll have to ask about those specifically. Hmmmmm - doesn't seem like that could hurt you... but, what do I know? I'll ask. If anyone ask a medical pro before me, please post.
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Thanks for the response Prof.
I do know I've heard too many docs say that colonics are pretty much iodiotic (for lack of a better word) and don't even have the health benifets that they advertised as having.
I just wasn't sure about the enema thing. I've seen some fetish vids dealing with enemas (the serious kind) but have never done them, nor really desire to do them with anyone for any reason. I guess you could consider what I've done "anal douching"? hehe
Thanks again
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thekat03
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Posted: Thu Feb 02, 2006 6:28 pm Post subject: |
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first off, i am not a doctor, and i do not know for sure the risks of enemas. however, i can theorize, and that's what i am doing here. i'd recommend taking everything i say with a grain of salt. you've been warned *grin*.
the digestive tract is essentially a big fancy tube designed to absorb and secrete stuff. normally, food and water go in one end and waste goes out the other. however, with enemas and suppositories and such, we are kind of tinkering with that process, and with our tinkering, we can bipass the natural regulation that our bodies possess to try to protect ourselves. when we drink too much alcohol, we sometimes end up vomiting, our bodies' way of trying to purge the toxin. however, it is possible to put so much alcohol up one's ass that one can get far more intoxicated far more quickly, before our bodies can tell us it's a bad idea to continue. likewise, a person can flush so much water through his or her colon with a massive enema that even if it's just plain water, it leaches out electrolytes from the body much faster than the body can compensate, resulting in dangerous electrolyte imbalances. i'd imagine a colonic is more likely to result in this problem than an enema, but a more likely predictor of risk is the amount of fluid flushed through the colon/rectum. the rectum is lined with the same thin lining designed to absorb and secrete as the rest of the colon, and thus, using many liters of fluid rectally only could be almost as risky as doing so throughout the rest of the colon. |
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zibeline
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Posted: Sun Feb 05, 2006 11:26 pm Post subject: |
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Prof. Tom wrote: |
If you get information from doctors it does tend to be a little more conservative than the real world sometimes. So, you should take my paranoia with a grain of salt. |
After listening to the episode, i came here just to check what had been said about enemas, for you sounded so against them when you usually are so open about kinks. For the same reason one should have a mineralised drink instead of plain water when they exercise--for one can lose too much electrolytes drinking too much water!--, enemas too should be taken with... a grain of salt. Actually, what i have been told is, if you *must* have an enema (i.e. if the fetish becomes irrestible ), don't do it with plain water but with a saline solution that matches bodily fluids.
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2006 3:56 am Post subject: |
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Is it possible enemas could be confused with colonics, by some?
The whole bag thing, with the tube going way up (way up you know where), I know is still an enema, but I've never done that. The bulb thing just seems to be completely different and not dangerous at all.
Colonics are bullshit. Don't do it. The full enema thing seems to me, to be dangerous, if not done responsibly. But i consider what I have done, with just the bulb and a basically a splash of water up there, to be an enema and can't imagine that is really dangerous.
I don't know if I'm making any sense, but "enema" might mean different things to different people.
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2006 9:28 pm Post subject: |
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For the same reason one should have a mineralised drink instead of plain water when they exercise--for one can lose too much electrolytes drinking too much water!-- |
actually, while this is sort of true, the only way to cause electrolyte imbalances by drinking too much plain water is to be drinking constantly (i.e. every waking moment; this is typically due to a psychological disorder, a need to constantly be drinking, and people who do this will drink from any water source available). Ok, so people who do not have functional kidneys can do it more easily (because they can't excrete that excess free water the way most people can), but for the average relatively healthy person, it is pretty damned hard to drink too much water.
it is a lot easier to get a dangerous amount of free water in and electrolytes out through the anus because that bypasses the sensors that say "ok, i've had enough water now". of course, i think it's still a lot of water that's needed, but not as much as would be needed to do the same thing taking free water in orally.
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Ami
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Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2006 8:27 am Post subject: fisting in the front |
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Not too impressed with this podcast. I was looking for tips not whining about cleanliness. Miss Dom you seem to have some serious issues with this so it might be nice to have a guest if you bring up the topic again.
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