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[GreenKinkster]

I'm a 39 year old male, usually described as network/computer geek, I live in Ontario Canada. I have always felt submissive but repressed and ignored my feelings because that wasn't what I thought society expected of me. I turned 39 in December and had a "what the fuck" moment (mid life crisis event perhaps) and decided I would explore what I was feeling. I started looking on the Internet for ways to explore. I checked out alt.com, bondage.com, some local Pros, and found some local groups that hold munches and play parties. I actually got as far as arranging a meeting with someone from alt before I chickened out. I decided it wasn't fair to my wife (15y) to go behind her back. I ended up confessing how I felt to her; expecting her to pack up the kids and go when I was done.

I lucked out. My wife agreed to start exploring D&S with me to see where it might take us. After 3 months she has started describing our relationship as being on a second honeymoon, we have never been as close as we are now.

So far we have tried some basic bondage, spanking, a little sensory deprivation, and some nipple play.

Listening to ksr has been great. It gives us some ideas of new things to try and how to be safe.

How's that for a long and rambling intro...