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[Potter]

Hey guys, just an idea for a topic that people seem to ask about frequently in various forum groups:

Maybe you could highlight some of the differences between those who are primarily submissive and those who are primarily masochistic. And, complimentarily, sadists in comparison to dominants. These aspects normally co-exist to some varying degree and it would be nice to hear a discussion on some of the dynamics involved in either type of scene or relationship.

Not to paint things in black and white, mind you. There are too many other scenarios to even contemplate. Pet and owner (one I like), fetishism in its many degrees and iterations, the cuckhold fantasy, ect.

Seems a topic worth tackling...? Or maybe a can of worms...

[J.W.]

There is a definite distingtion that has to be made between a sub and a bottom. In my experience, a sub is one that submits and does more than just play. It is likely that they like to serve or be humiliated or otherwise submit to their Domme or Dom.

A bottom is one that likes to play. Their sensation hounds, painsluts, or whatever. They don't submit more than they have too. While they thoroughly enjoy the sensation of the heavy flogger, they couldn't serve tea or coffee to save their lives, or they just don't get the same satisfaction from it that a sub does.

This is just my opinion and experience. The same arguement can be made about Tops and Masters.
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