J.W.
Joined: 04 Jan 2006
Posts: 58
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Posted: Sat Apr 01, 2006 3:44 pm Post subject: Ostracized for kinkiness? |
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This is something I'm sort of experiencing right now...
I'm just curious about others that have been ostracized for not being as discreet in their kinkines, and in my case, having some pride in their art work only to have that artwork misinterpreted as porn.
For me, I believe that most of my problem stems from the area I'm in which is right in the middle of the bible belt and a smaller town.
I'm also guilty of bringing up kinkiness too soon in a relationship and being stuck with the stigma of being creepy and a pervert, both are labels that I would have revelled in at one point in my life, but now I'm getting rather tired of them, especially when I've done my best to tone everything about me down to be a bit more attractive to potential partners only to have those labels come up to haunt me.
Any suggestions?
Should I find something of a support group somewhere for people like me? The perverted nice guy?
Peace
J.W.
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